What wakes you up every day? Is it a dream? No, it's because of the constantly beating information prompts in WeChat, maybe it's a red envelope, maybe it's a new point of view bursting out from the alumni group, colleague group, or friend group, which makes you have to react, either with approval or refutation. Either slander or ignore.
When did you develop the habit that you had to do?
People always have a sense of belonging, which comes from your past accumulation. The larger the group you belong to, the easier it is for you to gain security. When your sense of security is threatened or challenged, you will naturally react in some way so that you can retreat and continue to enjoy a sense of security.
Like a hermit crab, its tentacles occasionally extend from the shell, and then retract with lightning speed.
Some sense of security are innate and formed along the path of life, such as your bloodline, your alumni, your career, and even your country.
Who doesn’t want to be proud of his nation, family, country, alma mater, and company, and who doesn’t want to cheer for them? Because of them, various elements are injected into your body and stay with you for life.
The behavior you are shouting for is a constant attempt to find security;
The labels you put on yourself are pieces of armor that arm you;
The rhetoric you spout to defend your foundation are like snowflakes floating quietly and not knowing where to press them.
Because you trust the past you have experienced, you talk around to strengthen your belonging, and you find security with the silent majority, just like the Amen of Christian believers!
However, the reason why elements are called elements is that they can be ordered to be deployed by the brain that issues instructions. The brain is the only one that can transcend the elements you control and help you look back at what you have and what you deserve.
You have to know that what you have now does not come from anyone's gift, but from your hard work; and what you deserve will always be more than what you have.
Not being satisfied with the status quo is the nature of human beings to pursue a better life. Needless to say, contentment is always happy, because you will find that those who are not satisfied will most likely be happier than you after a period of time.
2018 is coming to an end, and everyone will know how much this past year has left a mark on you, how many times you have been a spectator of turbulent and romantic stories, and how many times you have envied or despised the protagonists of these stories. .
The important thing is that you are the protagonist of your life, not a spectator. The sense of immersion that makes you passionate will only belong to the spectators, not the protagonist.
2019 is coming. Amidst the snowflakes flying in the sky, everyone needs to move forward. I hope you can be the master of your life and make your own footprints.
The rising sun rises above the morning light, dispelling the gloom of the past.
In this new year, I hope that there is a door that can be opened just for you.